Thursday, December 4, 2014

To give or not to give - that is the question

I recently stumbled across an article published in the Harvard Business Review (April 2013 edition) that struck an instant chord with me. Innocuously titled ‘In the company of givers and takers’, the article dealt with the sticky subject of employee collaboration – and how it can be both boon and bane for organizations. Given the nature of work I do ranks high on the collaboration scale in delivering most of its work-product, I felt compelled to provide a succinct recap of the major takeaways from the article here.

To hit the nail on its head, the author Adam Grant (Professor at the Wharton School of Business, Pennsylvania), broadly delineates employees into exhibiting workplace behavior that characterizes them as either ‘givers’ or ‘takers’. Givers are the ones that offer assistance to their fellow colleagues (sometimes even unsolicited), share knowledge, make valuable recommendations– in short contribute to others without seeking anything in return. Takers, on the other hand, seek assistance from their peers for most jobs, often only with the intent of getting their own work done, or in an inane attempt to ‘protect’ their expertise. Knowledge management ‘silos’ are a direct consequence of employees demonstrating ‘taker’ behavior.

These two workplace-personality traits – to ‘give’ or ‘take’ – can be linked to the two great forces that govern human nature: self-interest and caring for others.  In choosing to exhibit either type of trait, employees are merely extending a portion of who they are, as humans, in an environment they come in contact with the most – their offices. Adam views the collision of these two ‘forces’ at the workplace to be potentially damaging for organizations – neither collegian generosity on the part of the giver, nor continued reluctance to contribute on the part of the taker can help in fostering effective collaboration at the workplace.

Organizations are fully aware of the need to encourage ‘giver’ behavior in their workforces – the article quotes several real-life examples where givers have been at the heart of teamwork, innovation, quality improvement and service excellence in their respective groups leading to as much as a 50% jump in annual revenues (in selected instances). However, there is a perceived cost to the exercise in the minds of the employee – studies reveal that most are discouraged from exhibiting such behavior by ‘relative’ performance evaluation mechanisms (or ‘dog-eat-dog scoring systems’ as Adam puts it) that reward competition, not collaboration. The evidence available seems to suggest exactly that: in a study of salespeople in one company, it was found that the ones who had brought in the least business were often ‘givers’.

However, this is where things get interesting - the same study found that the salespeople who generated the most revenue were also givers. These ‘super’ salespeople were consistently outperforming others while also helping their colleagues succeed. How were they doing it? Adam identifies three qualities that hold back the under-performing giver from succeeding:
  • Givers need to become more assertive – overcoming timidity and not sacrificing self for fear of disrespecting others is essential in not being taken for granted.
  • Givers need to define boundaries for their assistance – including what, when, who and how they provide help. It’s even better if they act as ‘matchers’ instead of merely giving help – by expecting something equally obliging in return from the taker.
  • Givers need to avoid the ‘empathy’ trap – instead, they must change their frame of reference to that of the person they are assisting. This change in perspective can hugely influence giver behavior for the better – in terms of cost, quality and time.

In conclusion, Adam Grant re-emphasizes the need to exhibit ‘productive’ giver behavior for the benefit of his/her organization – giving that isn’t unconditional or conscience-easing but assisting colleagues in a way that empowers them to do the same in return. The full article is available online at: https://hbr.org/2013/04/in-the-company-of-givers-and-takers.

As I come to the end of this piece, I realize that writing this article for the benefit of the ‘greater good’ does not make me a giver – it makes me one only when I know how to extract favors in return too. J